Kevin and I have been together for almost 10 years. He proposed to me almost 6 years ago on a trip to Pittsburgh. We started putting money away, but at the time decided that having a child was more important than getting married (because of our age and fertility issues). We decided to use our wedding money for IVF. Although the IVF didn't work out, we did have a miracle baby, but the beginnings were rough. My water broke at 23 weeks, which left me admitted into the hospital for 103 days. During that time, I was let go from my job. Our son was born and spent some time in the NICU. It's been almost 4 years since he was born and he's doing amazingly well. We're still catching up financially and have put our wedding on hold indefinitely. This would be an opportunity for us to finally be able to tie the knot at one of my favorite Buffalo locations!